Cả hai hấp dẫn và mức độ Trình độ chuyên môn cần phải được duy trì vào giai đoạn nghi (Chương 9) và xa hơn nữa, anyway. Bây giờ, cuộc sống là không công bằng, và một trong những nơi trong cuộc sống là cực kỳ không công bằng trong sự khác biệt giữa thu hút và giai đoạn Văn bằng. Khi bạn đang thu hút một người phụ nữ, cô ấy sẽ nói chung là không giúp bạn làm như vậy. Tuy nhiên, khi | MAGIC BULLETS Version 2007 RELATIONSHIPS Starting a Multiple Relationship Follow the same path as if you were beginning an Open Relationship. Just drop the bit about making your primary commitment to each other. If you genuinely feel that this is a temporary thing for you - that you are exploring while you search for the ideal partner for a higher-commitment relationship - then tell her this. It might make her more comfortable. But if go down this path make sure you share an understanding of your time-frame. Otherwise you may fight about this later. DATING UNdEFINEd Dating is the default category of relationship at least until you sleep together. Starting or Keeping your relationship Undefined You don t really have a choice. You pretty much always start here. If you re scouring this section I suppose it s because you want to stay here. Presumably you want a Friends with Benefits type of situation but have an option to upgrade Or you enjoy dating and living completely in the moment and allowing your relationships can evolve naturally or stagnate. The only way this is going to work is if you keep a very strong frame. You also need to mix enough dates in with sex so that she doesn t just think of your relationship as being Friends with Benefits but don t plan so many that she starts to see you as her boyfriend. Don t see her more than once a week. Don t be too available when she calls. Always keep the same mental attitude as if you d had a good first or second date with her and are curious to find out more. Don t make this attitude explicit but let it guide your mindset in your interactions with her no matter how many times you ve seen each other. FriENdS WITH BENEFITS Sometimes you see a woman primarily to have sex with her. Or if you do see her outside the bedroom it s usually in a group and does not have romantic connotations. As long as you are both honest about the situation it can be mutually enjoyable. Starting a Friends with Benefits relationship This isn
