Confusion generally arises with phrases like ‘my husband and I’ and ‘my husband and me’. Which should it be? The simplest method is to break the sentence into two and see whether ‘I’ or ‘me’ sound right: My husband likes chocolate. I like chocolate. MY HUSBAND AND I like chocolate. (ii) Most people use the pronoun ‘me’ correctly when it is used on its own: The burglar threatened ME. It was given to ME. Once again confusion arises when a pair is involved. The advice remains the same. .