"Ít nhất nó là tốt cho các nhà máy của Hunter hiểu biết, đó là một gợi ý Có lẽ bạn không thể biết một hoa của cây bồ công anh một, nhưng rõ ràng là các nhà máy là một phần của cuộc sống Quarry mới của bạn, hoặc cô ấy sẽ không sử dụng từ tiềm thức, thậm chí không biết rằng cô, cô đã khóc, "Tôi thực sự | engulfing a distant partner will drive you crazy. The more you try to draw that distant partner to you the more he or she will pull away. Conversely if the ideal relationship to you is loving coexistence a partner who gets too close will suffocate you. The more you push him or her away the more you weaken the relationship. All love relationships have a delicate balance between intimacy and independence. If the balance is off according to either of the partners the relationship topples. Most people are not consciously aware of the danger the disparity presents but they have a sixth sense that it is important. People tend to fall in love with people who feel the same way they do about what constitutes love. The next step to make your Quarry fall in love with you is to find out how he or she envisions a relationship. Then love him the way he wants you to love him love her the way she wants you to love her. Not the way you want to love your partner. Page 112 The single most powerful predictor of relationship satisfaction is the difference between how you think the other feels about you and how you would like an ideal other to feel about you. Robert J. Sternberg The Triangle of Love34 Early in your relationship start unearthing how your PLP needs to be loved. Hunters this is a bit easier for you because women are more comfortable discussing relationship issues. If you are already close you can ask the question outright What to you is an ideal relationship How would you like a man to love you I don t mean sexually. Does she long for total intimacy and interdependence or does she prefer loving distance Does she want you to ask and care about her every move or does she need more space The answer in all cases probably lies somewhere between the two extremes. Try to get an accurate reading on this and all other aspects of her ideal relationship. If however you are not yet a couple or if you suspect she might be uncomfortable with this question couch it as a philosophical .
