Ông đã tốt hơn, thông minh, hiểu biết, thích hợp mặc của người đàn ông (không phải là một loại nghệ thuật, sáng tạo). Tôi thậm chí không thể thụ thai với một người nào đó không phù hợp với cấu hình đó. Tâm trí bạn, nó không phải như tôi nghĩ để tạo ra khả năng cập nhật | Claperl IIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIUIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII SECRET 4 Your Parents Didn t Screw You Up and Even if They Did . . . We are disturbed not by what happens to us but by our thoughts about what happens. Epictetus Greek philosopher We live in a society that is conditioned to blame the state of our lives on what our parents did or didn t do to us growing up. Either your parents were around too much and controlled and smothered you or they weren t around enough and left you with commitment issues. One of my biggest breakthroughs which completely transformed my irresistibility and my ability to have a suc- 89 Copyright 2008 by Marie Forleo. Click here for terms of use. 90 Secrets to- Magnetising- Men cessful relationship was really understanding that my parents didn t screw me up. Until my midtwenties I believed I had a dysfunctional family and mildly abusive childhood. I was completely comfortable blaming my own inadequacies and failed relationships on my parents. I would tell men I dated poor me stories about how bad my mother was and how she screwed me up. I dubbed her a neurotic clean freak and held resentments against her for constantly making me pick up after myself. While I didn t have as many stories about my dad I nevertheless thought he worked too much and I silently begrudged him for failing to save me from my mother s mean ways. Can you say What a total crock My childhood was neither dysfunctional nor mildly abusive. The only dysfunction that occurred was in my bratty little mind. I told those poor me stories based on memories I put together as a difficult hormone-crazed teenybopper who did not like to be told what to do. Very much like lots of other teenyboppers on the planet. I had no awareness of how challenging it is to be a parent or the complexities and demands that come along with caring for and raising a family. Like many children I was untidy and self-absorbed and I needed discipline. Looking back with my adult eyes I m 100 percent .
